Special Edition: Politics and Peace
“Jesus said to him, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 22:37–40
Could there be a more challenging time in interpersonal relationships than during an election season? Whether between friends and family members or among our spiritual brothers and sisters in the church, the verses above remind us of the priority Jesus places on relationships. Here are a few more helpful truths to consider during this turbulent time.
“Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Give no offense, either to the Jews or to the Greeks or to the church of God, just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.” 1 Corinthians 10:31–33
“Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” James 3:18
“If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” Romans 12:18
The key principle is emphasized in this last verse: “as much as depends on you.” Self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit. We can’t control anyone else, but through self-control, with God’s grace and help, we can control our tongues! Here are a few suggestions to help..
Four Tactics
See political differences as a divine opportunity for relationship building, even if we encounter people with strongly differing opinions. God will redeem these circumstances if we let Him (Romans 8:28). It is well and good for us to have strong, biblically reinforced opinions and convictions about everything, including politics. However, it is equally important that we keep control of our tongues while focusing on loving our family and friends.
Know that God cares more about our relationships than our political opinions. Privately and prayerfully seek God’s Spirit for help, and acknowledge that God considers our relationships much more valuable than any differences we may hold on challenging temporal matters.
Remember how important listening is to any conversation. Listening and asking honest, constructive questions (while resisting the urge to counter points we disagree with) can lower defensiveness and build bridges to future conversations and interactions. The more we listen and show curiosity, the more we learn to love that person and understand their opinions. Asking gentle and appropriate questions rather than making statements can disarm most conflict, especially if those questions lead to biblical principles.
Gentleness and kindness are crucial in our responses. “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). It is more important to strengthen relationships than to score points.
We needed the extra injection of Scripture this time. Regardless of the age or circumstances, these truths are essential to guide our interactions. Perhaps our kindness and honest questions will open the door for conversations that transcend the news cycle. Healthier conversations about the good news of Jesus Christ.